Rhetoric, it is seemingly a very
powerful concept. Some choose to void it at all cost, some use it at every
opportunity possible, and others put forward their input and argue only when
and where they feel necessary. There are three types of people when it comes to
rhetoric, argument, and the art persuasion. First, there is the type of person
who avoids argument at all cost. This person would rather keep to themselves
then to stir any emotions regarding someone else’s opinion or idea. Next, there
is the person who chooses to argue at every given opportunity. This arguer will
put forward some type of persuasion, regardless of whether or not he or she
agrees or disagrees with any random concept. Finally, there is the person who selectively
argues an idea, opinion, or concept exclusively to when controversy is brought
up. Holding true to his or her beliefs this third person will argue matters
simply on the basis that they feel strongly about about them. I would consider
myself to be someone who argues more specifically when I feel passionately
about any specific topic.
Last
semester in my Woman and Gender Studies class, argument was a major component
to the issues discussed; everyone’s opinion was unique to their own experiences
and therefore not everyone saw every topic eye to eye. In this very class I
felt the need to argue what I believe is the true meaning of feminism, the
concept that accepts who you are, regardless of your sex, race, physical
appearance or gender, etc.
In one class specifically, my professor
had asked the class to right down what each of us thought the word feminism meant. He collected our papers
and said that only two out of the seventeen students in that class had defined
feminism correctly. So then after, we read aloud what we each of us thought the
word feminism meant. It was evident that everyone had a completely different
understanding of feminism. Some people thought and argued that it meant that
woman were better than men. Others thought and argued that it was something only
woman can be. After a long and heated discussion filled with much argument throughout,
our professor finally broke up the debate and clarified that feminism is
believing that men and woman should have equal rights.
Throughout our discussion, I noticed that our professor would
question our ideas, leading us to argue our opinions even further. At the time,
I felt very strongly about what I thought feminism means. So badly, I wanted
everyone to view this concept similarly to how I view it. However, giving your
opinion alone can only get you so far.
Almost every male in the class expressed that they believed that only woman
could be feminist. In reality it is anyone who believes in equal rights between
men and woman. Everyone seemed very shocked about the definition and the fact
that anyone can be a feminist. However, if this topic was not argued and
encouraged to be talked about by our professor, many of us would still be short
to the true definition of feminism. We talked about why people argue and came
to a conclusion that this often occurs due to miscommunication about a topic
being argued. That is why it is so important to back up your argument not only
with opinion but with support. With this support, others can view and understand
your side of the argument more clearly, opening up greater perspectives for
everyone.
It was interesting that in you story you focused on the school aspect of arguing and not a typical informal argument like someone's favorite sports team.
ReplyDeleteI thought you were exactly correct when you described the types of people that argue. I can think of people in my life who fit each of those three descriptions. Personally, I fall into the first category.
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